What FFW suggested
I've really struggled with 'roids since giving birth to my first ds. I've had several lanced due to clots :shutter
What it sounds like you're describing is clotted 'roids. The arnica cream - PLEASE make sure you get a cream and not gel. The gel is alcohol based and :shutter it will burn - ask me how I know :shutter
. Anywho, arnica will help break up the clot.
Rutin helps to shrink the 'roid tissue and bring them back to normal size
My HFS sells arnica cream and Rutin - so if you have one near by, you may want to call and ask so you can get them right away - if not, ordering online is most always the cheapest way to go.
ITU how awful 'roids can be
Hope your DH gets some relief soon. 'roids suck!