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Old 03-29-2012, 07:03 PM   #10
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Default Re: i need help from mammas with 2+ kids

Your story sounds very similar to mine, except that Kitten was almost 4 when I was pregnant with Monkey. I actually had a "personality change." I had never lost my patience with Kitten before, and I started yelling at her during my pregnancy. I also was very sick and couldn't get off of the couch for most of the pregnancy and I was in some crazy pain for most of it. I was depressed, and I learned in my second trimester that I was severely anemic. (It wasn't caught with the routine tests - my chiro told me to get my ferratin checked, and that was waaay too low.)

Kitten and I sat on the couch all day watching Nick Jr. (It was called something else back then.) Before then, she was only allowed about 45 min of TV per day. But we literally sat together and watched TV all day long because I simply couldn't do anything else. DH did all the meal prep and laundry.

I spoke with my naturopath, my homeopath, and my midwives about my grumpiness, and nobody took me seriously. Everyone, even me, chalked it up to pregnancy hormones. I'm not sure if there is really anything to be done about it, but I was just horrified that I was yelling at Kitten when I never had before. I was always so patient and kind with her in the past.

I would at least get your ferratin checked because anemia can make you grumpy. Thyroid issues can also make you grumpy and pregnancy can whack out your thyroid.

As for the napping - Kitten dropped naps at age 2 and I had to be very strict about bedtime after that. I believe we were in bed at 6:00 for story time and lights out at 6:30. She was always a very early riser though, so we were up at 5:00am every morning. But if we weren't in bed doing stories on time, the evening was a nightmare until I could get her to sleep.

Hugs to you during this difficult time.
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