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Chaos Coordinator · 01-31-2015, 09:01 PM

You are doing a great job. I just want to reiterate that.

Her behaviors sound like my son's behaviors when he's not meticulously managed - for us that means a LOT of sleep (he has to be drugged to sleep as much as he needs and it requires a specific routine), no dyes not in food, soap, or art supplies (he cannot touch crayons for example), and other dietary restrictions, and he is also on stimulant medication.

So I am just offering that to say that these behaviors don't always stem from abuse/neglect. I have no idea why other than food/dye sensitivities and ADHD, but dh and I both had that moment when we were sitting in foster parent training listening to the description of the abused/neglected child and then panicking that we had done something horrible to our own child

Have you talked to the parents? Are they helpful at all? I agree that it sounds like the teacher is a big problem. Can that be reported to someone?

01-31-2015, 09:01 PM	#7
Chaos Coordinator Rose Garden They need freedom to just be fluffy mashed potatoes and feel their fluffy feelings. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Up to my earballs in little boys. Posts: 20,259	Re: Teacher's aid here needing some help :) You are doing a great job. I just want to reiterate that. Her behaviors sound like my son's behaviors when he's not meticulously managed - for us that means a LOT of sleep (he has to be drugged to sleep as much as he needs and it requires a specific routine), no dyes not in food, soap, or art supplies (he cannot touch crayons for example), and other dietary restrictions, and he is also on stimulant medication. So I am just offering that to say that these behaviors don't always stem from abuse/neglect. I have no idea why other than food/dye sensitivities and ADHD, but dh and I both had that moment when we were sitting in foster parent training listening to the description of the abused/neglected child and then panicking that we had done something horrible to our own child Have you talked to the parents? Are they helpful at all? I agree that it sounds like the teacher is a big problem. Can that be reported to someone? __________________ Joy Progressive Methodist Enfp mama to Sparrow, 10 Zion, 7.5 Baby Gus, 4.5 Preschool teacher. Musician. Timelord. Www.justicemercymayhem.wordpress.com "What you plant in the kingdom will surely grow, and what you grow with love will surely bloom, and the fruit of the spirit will come back to you."

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