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Old 03-05-2011, 07:45 PM   #11
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Default Re: "Is This Punitive?" is missing the point of GBD

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Originally Posted by mommy5 View Post
i know im personally so polluted with the punitive mindset, its hard for me to apply these totally different concepts practically..

this exactly.

some of us have minds that have been so poisoned that we really just can't tell the difference anymore and are trying to feel our way through this with the help of other gcm'ers. we really dont know where the line is drawn, what that line looks like or how to recognize it. when we ask "is this punitive" its because we honestly can't tell. everything is so mixed up. its hard to have relationships with full grown adults sometimes, nevermind very very small young people. its not because we are "missing the point" its because we just dont know up from down and we need someone who DOES get it to help us find our way through.
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Last edited by Chaos Coordinator; 03-05-2011 at 07:50 PM.
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