Re: "Is This Punitive?" is missing the point of GBD
Something that I felt God has showed me is that I will not be able to control what happens to DS in the future - when he is an adult, I will not be there to micro-manage his life. What matters is my reactions to the issues that come up between us - that is what he will remember and will stick with him.
It helps me remember to be the adult in the situation.
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