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Originally Posted by stillsmallvoice
Interesting discussion.
What about when they start telling you "Get me some juice." instead of asking you for juice?
I have looked at asking them to do things nicely as modeling how to be polite instead of bossy.
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I guess that's where I watch what I demand my children to do. I don't say, "go get me some tea". I ask, if I want them to, for them to get me some tea. So they don't even think about demanding that I get them drink. When I do give commands, it's usually for them to clean up their own belongings, or for them to get ready for their activity. My kids hear plenty of pleases, but not for things that are non-negotiable.
For instance....
You need to pick up your shoes
Would you please help your brother get his shoes on
You will stop pulling the dogs tail
Would you please put some water down for the dog
See, for me, if it's optional, then they get the pleases and things in this house are rarely non-optional. Those are saved for very specific instances.