Re: Mamas that are "Messies" Support Thread
Oh I'll join. My mother is a perfectionist and didn't teach us how to maintain a tidy home in a sane manner. She cleans thoroughly. Every day. To the point where she cannot do things spontaneously most times because there is always some kind of housework to be done. So I seem to have gone the opposite way and I don't have any kind of routine. Add to that some mild depression that keeps me feeling easily overwhelmed by it all and our house isn't terribly tidy unless someone is coming over. Even then, there's usually a pile on the bed that's hidden behind a closed door.
So hi, I'm Ajani and I'm a messie. Oh, and FlyLady's simplest steps freak me out and cause me to shut down. She's just too overwhelming.
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