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Old 08-07-2006, 09:49 AM   #28
joyfulmomof2
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Default Re: Permissiveness or GBD?

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Originally Posted by pneumaphile
It's really fine. But really, reading the stickies and also Joanne's site and Crystal's site will really, really help you get this.
I am in the process and yes, it is helping. I just got out of the habit and needed some immediate solutions.

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They know surprisingly quickly what your buttons are.
They do find that out quickly don't they.

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I hope you're in a place to have your own space soon, stress levels will definitely go down.
Oh, I don't have a lot of stress here. The stress came before I moved here. But anyway, my folks are great help to me. I am just like my mom in that we read a bunch and forget to mull it over for a time before applying it. My dad on the other hand was trying to GBD my son I think when he suggested that it was ok for him not to like this food at this time in his life. On the one hand I would love to have my own place and have sweet daydreams about it. But on the other hand, I feel very safe right now living with my family and I have a lot of help that I would otherwise not have as a single parent.

I guess there was stress here, but we have all communicated since and have begun to work through issues as they come up rather than waiting until we were stressed. It helps a lot to do that.

Thank you for your help with this. I am feeling a lot better about things and have been very productive today and have seen the side of my 3.5 year old that I know and love. We are on our way to run some errands and play for the rest of the day. Thanks again!
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