i'm working on keeping my mouth shut. I though I was doing quite well until one of the mums from breastfeeding group started putting up fb statuses and she started to get distressed i had to message her that it isn't a great idea for their bond.
She was grateful for the support but then the next week it was "perseverance pays".
Now I just try and embrace my inner introvert and given up switching on my social extrovert self.
I find it difficult not to blurt things out!