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Originally Posted by WanderingJuniper

Anyway, what supports do you have in place right now? Do you have a family routine daily? A weekly schedule? Is it somewhere your girls can see it? What kind of boundaries do you have in place for yourself if your girl goes off at you? What kind of say do the girls have in what and how they learn? Environment for n which they learn?

(Hugs) you are in a hard season climbing uphill and it stinks. It’s okay to say it stinks.

I have been having issues with out daily routine and scedule sience I stoped most of it so that I could pack and move across the contry, at Christmas 2018. Once we got moved I was unpacking and trying to just get my bearings. I didn't imedeatly restablish our family routne that we had. Which is what everyone told me to do, and I now know that it was the worst thing I could have done. I know that early bird does not accept relaxing sedule or guideline and the. Bringing them back. I should have kept the eat breakfast, brief clean and then something schoolish or all of school. I haven't gotten back to where she will help with cleaning anything at all because she didn't have to when we moved here so she doesn't think she ever should have to in this house.

The basic routine that I have been trying to get/ keep going. Breakfast then school that is it. Not cleaning no nothing.


I have been trying to come up with some weekly schedule. I still get groshries on Monday ( early bird has been staying home). Starting when we finished last school year we started doing art with my dad on Tuesday and Thursday. Saturday Dh and I get some cleaning done ( early bird go and hids and reads) Sunday we do church. That is it as far as scedule.

We have a weekly schedule in the board. But school dies get written up on it.

I don't have good if any boundries for when the girls go off. When Dh was working we had a hard boundry of they couldn't go down the hall yelling and if they got too loud ( where it could be heard though the doors) I would take them to the car and stay there with them untill they were calmed down.

When ever I try to talk to early bird then only answers i have never gotten out of her is she wants to read and she wants to learn science. it has been her answer sience she was 4. If I try to have her look a curriculum or talk about spacific things she goes back to she wants to read and learn about science. I didn't try to engage her in the talking and planning this year because I was over whelmed and she hasn't where worked with me when I have tried in the past. I completely dropped all of our writting curriculum because it was frustrating her.

I given them lots of opetins on where often early is out side or in her huggle pod. I have started trying to not let her do it under the table because she will get right by my feet and then if I move them she will be off complaining and freaking out because I 'kicked' her.

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