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Old 05-28-2012, 02:06 PM   #4
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Default Re: sacrifice

I guess I'm in a funny place, I already gave up my income almost 5 yrs ago, to be a SAHM. We moved a year and a half ago and I don't feel like I've got any real good friends, just good acquaintances, IYKWIM. With 3 little ones I feel like I don't have time for any of my hobbies, what more can I have to give up to homeschool as opposed to being a SAHM?

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Originally Posted by Laurlor View Post
Right now I would say a second income because DH has made WAY less the last two years and I feel completely helpless to pick up any of the slack. But I still wouldn't trade it.

Of course I've given up other things like time with friends, but I've found new hsing friends in the process that have turned into rich friendships.
Thanks, this is encouraging. I think you are saying that yes there are things you give up but they are counter-balanced by the benefits of homeschooling and new friends and that it is hard to think of one without the other,
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