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Old 04-28-2012, 12:00 PM   #395
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Default Re: Yelling Support Thread

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Originally Posted by CapeTownMommy View Post
How have I not joined this thread before?

I really struggle with yelling, and my biggest trigger is noise. So for example tonight I'm busy cooking dinner for the kids, I feel perfectly calm but the kids are underfoot in the kitchen and they're fighting and screaming and yelling at each other - and I bottle up my frustration with it and then BAM! I explode at them.

I need to get better at identifying that the noise level is bothering me, and redirect them or get help from dh or whatever BEFORE it overwhelms me. I almost never yell except when there is a lot of noise, but with a 2yo and a 5yo there is often a lot of noise.
ITU the noise thing!
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