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Old 05-03-2012, 04:25 AM   #400
Tandem mama
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Default Re: Yelling Support Thread

This week, I've set myself up for success by not being home alone with the girls. I'm deep in the grieving process and I know that when I'm having big feelings and they get loud or hyper or whiney I tend to lose it and yell.

I also know that if they're distracted, they are less likely to become any of the above.

I also know that if I have an audience it's easier to stay calm.

So, I've set us up for success by being out every day. It's been working. My house is a disaster but I'm not yelling.
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