Re: Why not time outs?
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Originally Posted by ArmsOfLove
The key is that discipline ONLY takes place within the context of relationship and punishment damages relationship. This is why "spanking experts" will insist you must "reconnect" after the spanking--the spanking, by its nature, disconnects. The same is true for anything that could be defined as "adversarial"--it pits you against each other when God has put you on the same team.
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Thank you! I think I finally get the whole point of GBD!
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