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Originally Posted by Close2MyHeart
I didn't read any of the responses, but I am so glad you said something to him. My husband was in a really bad, verbally/mentally abusive marriage for 20 yrs. Once they separated, his family started telling him how relieved they were. That they knew before the wedding that she wasn't good for him and treated him and others around her poorly. I kinda wish they had spoken up then and potentially saved him from 20 yrs of abuse.
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For what it's worth, I've seen people try to warn people not to marry an abusive person, and I've never seen it do any good. All it did was damage the healthy relationship, making it that much harder for the victim to get help when they needed it.