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Old 05-23-2006, 02:42 PM   #1
kazoo
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Default request for stickies discussing definitions of terms

Hi all,

First thanks to everyone who has responded to my other posts (Dobson, bullies) -- so helpful. I was looking at the thread about Crystal's book that someone posted re: questions her friend had about some concepts in the book(http://www.gentlechristianmothers.co...?topic=60786.0) and I realized that the questioner had similar questions that I and probably other people have. A lot of these questions seem to revolve around what is meant by certain terms/phrases. Here's some that I've scratched my head over so far:

willful defiance vs. lack of impulse control
punitive (previously, i saw only spanking/slapping as "punitive")
grace vs. permissiveness
consequences -- natural, imposed, logical
normal vs. normative
appropriate vs. age-appropriate

I feel like my main struggle to understand GBD better has centered around the fact that people seem to use these terms differently or ambiguously. I'm getting better at understanding, but I'm wondering if perhaps a sticky could be created that discusses commonly used terms/phrases so that people questioning/exploring can avoid some confusion when trying to understand the concepts?

Thanks!
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