I am a massive proponent of honoring prior arrangements. When people ditch me for something better, it hurts my feelings because I am super busy and made time for them, and it makes me feel like I am not important to them. I also do not view being asked to babysit at the last minute the same way I view a job with a set schedule.
That being said, I think it should be her choice and also her job to communicate directly with her friends
It is definitely a tough spot for her to be in, which is why I do think it's crucial she learns how to navigate it. It's going to keep happening, lol.
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