Little Miss is closing in on 4.5. And she is refusing to wipe herself; she wants one of us (dh or me) to do it for her.
eta: to clarify, this is wiping herself after peeing (pooping, I kind of expect to help her with; but peeing? she'd been doing it herself and now just downright refuses. to the point of tears
)
What should I do here?
How can I encourage her to do this? She offers me no reason except, "I don't want to do it."
Should we do it for her (my dh is beginning to feel uncomfortable with this; he would like her to be doing it herself)?
Is "I don't want to do it / I don't like to do it?" a valid reason for us to do it?
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~ judith
blessed with a creative, encouraging man of God for my husband since October 2001
blessed with a delightful, creative little girl since February 2008
blessed with a sweet {but sometimes fierce} empathetic little girl since April 2010
word on the street is I am an ENFP
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.