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Ok...this is a great discussion! I see I'm joining in a bit late, but I still have one question. Say my ds, 3yo, is encouraged to head to the Comfort Corner because he hit his little brother, 15mo, who tried to take his blocks or what have you. Do I discuss the behavior before he goes to the Comfort Corner or help him get to the CC and then let him figure it out? When do I help him make amends and help his little brother feel better????

Still needing guidance...but it is clicking!!!! Woohoo!

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03-30-2005, 02:23 PM	#23
3BlueArrows4Us Guest Posts: n/a	Re: help me with my comfort corner Ok...this is a great discussion! I see I'm joining in a bit late, but I still have one question. Say my ds, 3yo, is encouraged to head to the Comfort Corner because he hit his little brother, 15mo, who tried to take his blocks or what have you. Do I discuss the behavior before he goes to the Comfort Corner or help him get to the CC and then let him figure it out? When do I help him make amends and help his little brother feel better???? Still needing guidance...but it is clicking!!!! Woohoo!

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