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Originally Posted by Marsha
So I said: yes, I'm tired and i'm cranky, and my ears hurt from your screaming, and I"m upset because you screamed at Riley and drove her away and I don't get to spend time with her this evening, and I love you, but I 'm not getting to enjoy the time I spend with you.
I am sure that was totally gult tripping and shaming, but it was better than having the thougths show on my tightly pinched lips and terse manner, I guess.
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Was that guilt tripping and shaming?
It didn't seem like it to me...?
If that was guilt tripping, then I don't get the "reflecting feelings" thing at all...