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Originally Posted by Singingmom

I thought I'd also get a good book for her...is Dr Sears' Baby Book still the go to for AP?

Has it been updated? When I last read it, back in the mid 00's, it was already sounding dated...

I find that for new moms, websites are a more helpful resource than books (unless the mom is a huge book reader or doesn't use a smartphone).

I have noticed this shift over the past decade as the internet has become better organized. Parenting websites that have content formatted for smartphone screens, updated articles (ex. "Fourth trimester" tips, or Fisher Price Rock n Play controversy), and a variety of topics focusing on a new mom's emotional needs, her baby's needs, personal stories, health articles, and videos accompanying articles are really helpful b/c it provides not only tips but also a sense of 'other people know what I'm going through' because of the blog format). Plus it's easily searchable, which is handy when you're feeling frazzled.

AP Parenting that used to be on the fringes has also become more mainstream (ex. babywearing is everywhere, cosleeping is still controversial but a crib/side carred bed is supported widely, breastfeeding advocacy is easily accessible, and the idea of a new baby's emotional needs ('fourth trimester') have a lot more popularity than even a few years ago, and that is reflected in the parenting resources out there too.

Anyway...all that to say, it's not a bad idea to give a book. Just that it might depend a lot on the mom's personality and age.