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Old 05-18-2017, 03:07 PM   #10
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Default Re: Child Led Learning and the Unmotivated Child

I don't push/require school until older (since our state requires extensive reporting at age 8, I use that as my excuse, and, when Lina wasn't showing interest in much educational stuff by 7 1/2 or so, I used the "it's the law" excuse and gave her options of choosing what she's learning or I would. She didn't, so after some false starts, we settled on a waldorf-ish approach and it's working for her.

To me, the following me around whining is a separate issue. . . I'll point out the options they have (games, legos, draw, whatever . . . ) and if they keep whining and bugging me, they get the choice of helping me with whatever chores I'm doing (sometimes, especially that young, they happily DO join me in folding laundry or washing dishes or helping cook supper or whatever. That's a lot less likely to happen now at age 8) or figuring out something on their own. I don't consider myself a cruise director, it's not my job to "entertain" my children all day long.
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