We are struggling with this, too
We also deal with finding things everyone will eat. Someone always dislikes whatever it is I or dh makes. And we have multiple different diets going on in the house, with some food allergies mixed in. My dh eats low carb, teenage dd eats vegetarian (this is recent, so I am not sure if this is a permanent change yet or not). Plus myself and 4 other kids who all have various likes/dislikes...and of course, everyone has different food allergies. I have resigned to having easy, microwaveable food stocked in the freezer, so if someone doesn't like whatever it is that we made, they can make one of those items themselves. It's not ideal, and I don't particularly like that, but it is what it is.