[Laurlor]

Originally Posted by J3K

I'd let dh talk to her about it.

I'd also offer a bit of grace. Sometimes people I trust post things I don't like on my dd's fb page. They aren't bad people , I know them in real life, they just said something rude/crude/inappropriate. It's not worth unfriending/following them.

I agree 100% with the advice...thank you. I had called DH this morning when I found the posts (he has the kids camping this weekend....yippee!) and talked to him about it. He said he totally agreed with me and was thinking about how to handle it. I just thought it would be easiest handled to hide the posts from these two girls if possible without actually unfollowing them....I didn't want them to notice DD had unfollowed them and cause drama. DD unfollowed somebody once and much drama ensued.

The two girls in question were in question long before these posts. The posts only confirm what I already know about them. One of the girls (13!!) posted all these screen shots of asking SIRI questions....like "Where can I find a prostitute?" and "I'm drunk. What should I do?" She's a girl from our charter school that has caused lots of drama this year. I was actually notified of the posts by a fellow mom, because her DD texted the girl and told her she should be careful what she posts because it puts her in a bad light. Many nasty texts were the result, and my DD was named in one of them basically as the "good" girls who need to lay off of her. That's another story....I've advised DD already not to correct her. The other girl is in DD's youth group at church and has also been causing a lot of trouble with the youth leaders.

But I'll definitely be letting DH handle this...it doesn't go over well coming from me these days.

Thanks for the advice and help!