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Old 03-07-2007, 08:36 PM   #22
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Default Re: Discussion of "Dealing With Disappointment" by Elizabeth Crary

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Originally Posted by canadiyank
Very much definitely all emotions. The loud negative ones are just the ones most of us are concerned about. In the next chapter she actually talks about how most of us, when we reflect feelings, mainly do the negative ones. Interesting.
I was actually thinking about this earlier today, and I am making more of an effort to reflect those happy, joyful emotions also. I am also making sure that I dientify my own feelings to him such as "I am sad right now" or "Mommy is SOOOO happy!!" I am also being careful not to reflect my feelings into what he is doing (ie. "Mommy is so happy because you ____________".)

He has started comforting me. He wants me to pick him up so he can hug me and hold me back, then points to our "Comfie Chair" and wants me to sit in it. Then he snuggles me good, flips sideways and nurses with this look like, "THIS always makes ME feel better, so it must you too." And of course it does, just because he is being so sweet
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