01-31-2006, 04:03 AM
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Rose Garden
Bar/Bat Mitzvah picture with husband Michael.
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: Permissiveness or GBD?
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Originally Posted by illinoismommy
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Originally Posted by bliss
Permissive is the mama with a five year old about to jump off the second-story eave of the house saying, "Now Joey, think about the consequenses of your actions. Is jumping off the roof a good choice?" (true life example from my neighbor all through high school and the reason why it took me so long to even consider non-punitive discipline - I thought all "positive discipline" looked like that bozo and her hellion son who, now btw, is sadly in jail.)
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sadly I resisted GBD for the same reason, but one you see the difference, it makes all the sense in the world
Me too! I know three grown "children" from the same family who were raised permissively and it does not look well for them..........
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