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Old 07-15-2014, 09:04 AM   #1
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Default Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article...

Mods, please move if this isn't the right place.. but I thought that since it was a specific situation/article, it belonged here rather than the Gentle Discipline forum.

I'm sure many of you have seen the HuffPo article recently circulating around social media that supposedly details why modrn-day parenting is in crisis - you know, the one written by a British nanny? When I read it, it didn't sit well with me... so I went looking for "gentle" rebuttals to share with my friends when they inevitably shared the article.

I thought maybe I would post them here so that others would haven a resource to do the same.

Please feel free to add others you are aware of, too. I know I found at least one other when I first searched, but I didn't save it and now I'm not sure where it was.

5 (Alternative) Reasons Modern-Day Parenting Is in Crisis
http://www.jennifermcgrail.com/2014/...-is-in-crisis/

And this one actually breaks down both the original AND Jennifer's points from the above link, and comes at it from more of a religious perspective..

Modern Day Parenting is in Crisis, Because Nanny Is Enforcing Unhealthy Parenting Styles!
http://thehomespunlife.com/modern-da...enting-styles/
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Old 07-15-2014, 02:47 PM   #2
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Default Re: Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article...

I liked this one:
http://sarahockwell-smith.com/2014/0...ritish-mother/
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Default Re: Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article...

I think this is fine here It's discussing rebuttals to a (sort of) parenting guru's recommendations
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Default Re: Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article...

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That's the one I coulsn't find again today. Thank you!

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I think this is fine here It's discussing rebuttals to a (sort of) parenting guru's recommendations
That's kinda what I was thinking, but I seem to have a knack for posting things that get moved to a different forum.
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