Gentle Christian Mothers Community
 
Random Quotes from Wise Mamas

~* Please help keep GCM free by using our
Amazon.com affiliate link. Thank you! *~


Go Back   Gentle Christian Mothers Community > Specific Issues > Gentle Discipline *Public*
Forgot Password? Join Us!

Gentle Discipline *Public* A public forum.
GCM Webpage: Gentle Discipline

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 09-06-2015, 09:30 AM   #16
mamacat
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 26,473
mamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Was coming back to suggest buying those inflatable beach balls that can be used to play catch with inside and out
__________________
~Catherine~

Mama to 5:

C
W
C
J
S
And Grandma to 3:

A ,K and baby C
mamacat is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to mamacat For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 10:46 AM   #17
sweetpeasmommy
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Posts: 30,329
sweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

We used to have a crash pad. I can't remember what it was made of but maybe a beanbag chair and some large pillows or cushions. He would launch himself there over and over.

Balance boards are good too. Water play meets a huge number of sensory needs and has always been my go to when everything has gone sideways, we just get out the hose and get our happy back.


Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
__________________
Amy eNFp


Wife to ISTJ DH 1997
Mom to one Sweet Boy 10/2004

sweetpeasmommy is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to sweetpeasmommy For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 10:56 AM   #18
MegMarch
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 5,922
MegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

A friend of mine has kids with A Lot Of Energy. She put an old mattress on the floor for them to jump on and they've got a pull up bar in a doorway that they use a lot.

I wonder about some of the playdoh and putty type products sold for sensory therapies as quiet activities?
MegMarch is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to MegMarch For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 11:11 AM   #19
ValiantJoy07
Rose Garden
 
"Take Joy Home, And make a place in thy great heart for her...Joy is the grace we say to God." ~Jean Ingelow~
 
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: The Forest
Posts: 16,337
ValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond reputeValiantJoy07 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Crayola model magic is AMAZING if you're looking for a clay that isn't messy! I bought a big tub of it last Christmas and it can be re-wet (1-2 seconds under hot water and then massage it in until clay feels stretchy again). And it keeps a "like new" tecture. It doesn't crumble or make any mess on the table like other clays and my sensory kiddos love the texture.
__________________
Hannah Joy
Intuitive People Loving Introvert
Married since '05 to Ryan software and web applications developer.
Homeschooling Mama to my 5 Joys...
dd1 RJ (12/07), dd2 AJ (08/09), dd3 PJ (01/12), ds1 Ziggy (09/15), ds2 Sunny (05/18)
Enjoying a Healing Diet to manage SPD and other health challenges.
Sorry for the typos and sloppy grammar I don't have a good excuse anymore.
ValiantJoy07 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to ValiantJoy07 For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 02:08 PM   #20
bananacake
Rose Garden
 
I Am A BananaCake
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Northeast US
Posts: 25,126
bananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond reputebananacake has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Seriously small house problems. It was also much easier when we had a playground nearby (though that was unusable 4 months out of the year). And easier when we didn't have a baby
__________________
Brenna

3 kiddos (16 1/2, 14 & 9)
Praying for semi-son, age 35

I live by the motto: seek first to understand.

"Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions." Proverbs 18:2
bananacake is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to bananacake For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015), Dovenoir (09-09-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 02:20 PM   #21
Beth1231
Deactivated
 
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Texas
Posts: 14,962
Beth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

So many awesome ideas!!
I put on our bathing suits to play with the hose and use the plastic slide.
I am realizing that I've been subconsciously hoping my boys will just calm down like their sister and play with Littlest Pet Shop for hours and hours. Not happening.
Barrels of dirt,dump trucks,bricks,wood,slide,trampoline,oodles of little locks,and extremely inefficent ways to do chores is going to have to become the norm around here.
Hey,maybe I'll lose weight...
Beth1231 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to Beth1231 For This Useful Post:
Chaos Coordinator (09-09-2015), Johns_Gal (09-07-2015), mamacat (09-06-2015), MegMarch (09-06-2015), Pilgrim (09-06-2015), ReedleBeetle (09-07-2015), sweetpeasmommy (09-06-2015), ValiantJoy07 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 02:43 PM   #22
mamacat
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 26,473
mamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

I remember very well my younger son coming to me wailing that his little sister was making families out of his dinosaurs and putting them in her dollhouse telling me they CAN'T be families - they were ferocious. He has always been very verbal
__________________
~Catherine~

Mama to 5:

C
W
C
J
S
And Grandma to 3:

A ,K and baby C
mamacat is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to mamacat For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015), Dovenoir (09-09-2015), Johns_Gal (09-07-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 04:48 PM   #23
Beth1231
Deactivated
 
 
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Texas
Posts: 14,962
Beth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond reputeBeth1231 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Quote:
Originally Posted by mamacat View Post
I remember very well my younger son coming to me wailing that his little sister was making families out of his dinosaurs and putting them in her dollhouse telling me they CAN'T be families - they were ferocious. He has always been very verbal
Awesome
My C is a mellow little guy and will play house and doggie with A. But lately,he also wants to "run very fast",hit things with my broom and vault on and off....everything.
I shared a lot of these ideas with Hubby. Tying the chairs to the table is genius. I wish I had done that two kids ago because toddlers use them as step stools. A crash pad or small,foldable slide (our outdoor one is way too big) is also in the works. He wants to know where/how a pullup bar works in the house.
I have lots of hope and dreams this move is going to be super good for our family.
Beth1231 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Beth1231 For This Useful Post:
bananacake (09-07-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 04:52 PM   #24
MegMarch
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 5,922
MegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond reputeMegMarch has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

The family I mentioned put these in the entry to a room the children use as a playroom primarily. I would look at reviews for the bars and see if people mention where they chose to put them. Different styles install differently so check out several.
MegMarch is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to MegMarch For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 05:59 PM   #25
mamacat
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 26,473
mamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Those brooms sound like a real draw right now.Will the laundry room in new place have a latchable door?

---------- Post added at 12:59 AM ---------- Previous post was at 12:57 AM ----------

You can still be implementing things like running is for outside and balls are for throwing not (fill in blank).Eventually they get a little older and start to get it.
__________________
~Catherine~

Mama to 5:

C
W
C
J
S
And Grandma to 3:

A ,K and baby C
mamacat is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to mamacat For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-06-2015, 07:08 PM   #26
sweetpeasmommy
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Posts: 30,329
sweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond reputesweetpeasmommy has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

There are pressure mounted chin up bars for doorways that might work.
__________________
Amy eNFp


Wife to ISTJ DH 1997
Mom to one Sweet Boy 10/2004

sweetpeasmommy is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to sweetpeasmommy For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-06-2015)
Old 09-07-2015, 05:33 AM   #27
MariJo7
Rose Trellis
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2014
Posts: 2,065
MariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond reputeMariJo7 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

I'm still very grateful to and proud of my good mother who allowed me to "legally" paint and draw on the wall. It was in the early 60's and considered as really revolutionary. Mom had the walls of one room covered with drawing paper and I could draw there as much as I liked. I can't remember much of it but my dad has taken pictures of me drawing on the wall. .

My DS3 has bought a large, old house lately. When I visited him I was happy to see how he had left the old, ugly wall papers on their place in one of the rooms. And he lets his toddler daughter to decorate the old wall paper. .
MariJo7 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to MariJo7 For This Useful Post:
bananacake (09-07-2015), Beth1231 (09-07-2015), mamacat (09-07-2015), zeo2ski (09-21-2015)
Old 09-07-2015, 08:05 AM   #28
marigold
Rose Trellis
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: home on the hill
Posts: 1,593
marigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud ofmarigold has much to be proud of
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Ooooh... my boys are 6, 4 1/2, and almost 2 and I am 32 weeks pregnant. their rowdiness is driving this tired momma crazy Thank you so much for starting this thread. I'm coming back to read these ideas again later.
__________________
Lesli (DYT 2)
Wife to Dh since Sept. 2005
Mama to: dd1 - Sept. 2007
ds1 - June 2009
ds2 - April 2011
ds3 - October 2013
dd2 - November 2015
Image already added
marigold is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to marigold For This Useful Post:
bananacake (09-07-2015), Beth1231 (09-07-2015)
Old 09-07-2015, 08:38 AM   #29
mamacat
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 26,473
mamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond reputemamacat has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

Jut thought of you when saw mop in laundry room Idea of you cant ride the broom around but you CAN ride/wave this - give pool noodles or some other softer thing
__________________
~Catherine~

Mama to 5:

C
W
C
J
S
And Grandma to 3:

A ,K and baby C
mamacat is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to mamacat For This Useful Post:
Beth1231 (09-07-2015), Pilgrim (09-07-2015), ReedleBeetle (09-07-2015)
Old 09-07-2015, 08:38 AM   #30
WanderingJuniper
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 10,819
WanderingJuniper has disabled reputation
Default Re: Practical ideas for two destructive little boys?

You've gotten some really good ideas. Ultimately around here the result was reminding myself things are just things and growing adults is dirty and loud. We tried so hard to have almost everything be ok for kids if they could reach it it was ok.

They broke everyone if my glass Dolphins I had collected since I was 11 when they were all under 4 years old. I thought I had them on a high enough shelf in the bathroom. I was wrong. Of course because they were Dolphins they needed to swim in the ocean that happened to also be our porcelain sink. :/ That was the day that changed how our entire house was set up.

I'll have nice things again in about 3 years.
WanderingJuniper is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to WanderingJuniper For This Useful Post:
bananacake (09-07-2015), Beth1231 (09-07-2015), zeo2ski (09-21-2015)
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:20 AM.


A variety of opinions and ideas are shared on GCM. Personal experiences, suggestions, and tips found here are in no way intended to substitute for medical counsel from a healthcare professional. Always use your own good judgement and seek professional advice when in doubt about a health concern.

Amazon.com affiliate link

Copyright 1997-2017 by Gentle Christian Mothers™
An alternative-minded, evangelical Christian community supporting attachment parenting and natural living.

Do not post content elsewhere.
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/community/

Some smilies created and copyrighted by Mazeguy.
Some smilies and avatars created and copyrighted by flowermama and children -- do not use elsewhere.

Soli Deo Gloria
To God only wise, be glory through Jesus Christ for ever. Amen. ~ Romans 16:27 (KJV)

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

X vBulletin 3.8.3 Debug Information
  • Page Generation 0.10302 seconds
  • Memory Usage 8,116KB
  • Queries Executed 14 (?)
More Information
Template Usage:
  • (1)SHOWTHREAD
  • (1)ad_footer_end
  • (1)ad_footer_start
  • (1)ad_header_end
  • (1)ad_header_logo
  • (1)ad_navbar_below
  • (1)ad_showthread_beforeqr
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_sig
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_start
  • (1)bbcode_quote
  • (1)cyb_flashimagebanners
  • (1)footer
  • (1)forumjump
  • (1)forumrules
  • (1)gobutton
  • (1)header
  • (1)headinclude
  • (1)navbar
  • (3)navbar_link
  • (60)option
  • (1)pagenav
  • (1)pagenav_curpage
  • (2)pagenav_pagelink
  • (15)post_groan_box
  • (1)post_groan_javascript
  • (1)post_groan_navbar_search
  • (15)post_thanks_box
  • (33)post_thanks_box_bit
  • (1)post_thanks_javascript
  • (1)post_thanks_navbar_search
  • (15)post_thanks_postbit_legacy
  • (15)postbit_legacy
  • (15)postbit_onlinestatus
  • (155)postbit_reputation
  • (15)postbit_wrapper
  • (4)showthread_bookmarksite
  • (1)smqre_editor_button
  • (1)spacer_close
  • (1)spacer_open
  • (1)tagbit_wrapper 

Phrase Groups Available:
  • global
  • inlinemod
  • postbit
  • posting
  • reputationlevel
  • showthread
Included Files:
  • ./showthread.php
  • ./global.php
  • ./includes/init.php
  • ./includes/class_core.php
  • ./includes/config.php
  • ./includes/functions.php
  • ./includes/class_hook.php
  • ./includes/functions_notice.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner.php
  • ./mobiquo/include/classTTConnection.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner/head.inc.php
  • ./includes/functions_bigthree.php
  • ./includes/class_postbit.php
  • ./includes/class_bbcode.php
  • ./includes/functions_reputation.php
  • ./includes/adminfunctions_template.php
  • ./includes/functions_misc.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_thanks.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_groan.php 

Hooks Called:
  • init_startup
  • cache_permissions
  • fetch_threadinfo_query
  • fetch_threadinfo
  • fetch_foruminfo
  • style_fetch
  • cache_templates
  • global_start
  • parse_templates
  • fetch_musername
  • notices_check_start
  • global_setup_complete
  • showthread_start
  • template_groups
  • template_safe_functions
  • template_compile
  • showthread_getinfo
  • forumjump
  • showthread_post_start
  • showthread_query_postids
  • showthread_query
  • bbcode_fetch_tags
  • bbcode_create
  • showthread_postbit_create
  • postbit_factory
  • postbit_display_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_end
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_start
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_end
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_start
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_end
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_bit_start
  • post_thanks_function_show_thanks_date_start
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_bit_end
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_post_thanks_template_start
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_post_thanks_template_end
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_start
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_end
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_start
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_end
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_start
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_end
  • reputation_image
  • bbcode_parse_start
  • postbit_imicons
  • bbcode_parse_complete_precache
  • bbcode_parse_complete
  • postbit_display_complete
  • error_fetch
  • pagenav_page
  • pagenav_complete
  • tag_fetchbit_complete
  • forumrules
  • showthread_bookmarkbit
  • navbits
  • navbits_complete
  • showthread_complete