Sibling Rivalry

ArmsOfLove · 03-19-2013, 02:59 PM

we did our first publicized Google+ hangout on Sibling Rivalry. If you've had issues with this, it might help

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9T28...ature=youtu.be

The next chat is going to be about teaching children responsibility. If you would like to join us, please pm me. We can have a total of 9, but others can watch live on youtube. Just be patient with us - it took us awhile to get going today and make it all work right

I think it will be 2 weeks from now on Wednesday. I'll post again when I have the exact date and time hammered out.

flowermama · 03-20-2013, 12:17 PM

That is so awesome, Crystal! I think it's great you are doing that.

For the next one, if I'm home I'd like to watch, but definitely not be part of it. Wish I were brave enough! Maybe some day.

HadassahSukkot · 03-21-2013, 04:30 AM

Jeri, when you are brave enough, we are ready for you. I can't wait to see and hear what gems you'd have ready for us.

flowermama · 03-21-2013, 10:25 AM

That's so kind of you!

Thank you!

Codi · 03-21-2013, 10:59 AM

Can't wait to watch it later!!

Codi · 03-21-2013, 06:20 PM

I was just thinking how cool these videos will be to show my dh!

He is a man who does NOT enjoy the written word

especially parenting info... but I can totally get him to watch a short video!

Codi · 03-21-2013, 09:42 PM

I really like the line about looking at the world as being an interruption to your mothering instead of mothering being an interruption to everything else needing to be done.

A big trigger for me is being interrupted.

THAT is a line I need to internalize!

(Finally finished the video.

)

LovelyGourmet · 04-02-2013, 08:56 PM

That was great!

We've been struggling with sibling issues. It's so nice to hear that they're not supposed to "get it" until they are older I was thinking I was doing something wrong because they were still fighting all the time!

Dana Joy · 04-02-2013, 09:02 PM

How religious is the advice? I don't have time to watch it now, but a non-Christian friend of mine was just picking my brain about sibling stuff.

ArmsOfLove · 04-02-2013, 09:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mommy Piadosa

How religious is the advice? I don't have time to watch it now, but a non-Christian friend of mine was just picking my brain about sibling stuff.

I don't remember anything being religious

I may have mentioned my response to something involving stopping to pray, but I don't think it went in that direction

Jeri, I would love to have you join us even if you said nothing

But you can watch it live too! We're looking at next Tuesday (it was going to be tomorrow but I am taking my family to Mexico to see the dentist and that's the only day I can go

)

HadassahSukkot · 04-03-2013, 01:17 AM

I don't really recall it being very religious like mentioning church or synagogue services or holidays.. Crystal might have mentioned stopping to pray, as she said, but it was pretty much all the problems any mom would have with kids and sibling rivalry.

SalH · 04-03-2013, 06:03 AM

Just. Wow.

LOVED IT.

Thanks so much Crystal. I loved it because it was so great to have you do so many examples / role play those discussions. Loved it because you demonstrate firmness re boundaries but it is still gentle parenting, it is still full of grace... it is affirming because I think i might even be *getting there*. Some really great developmental advice too.

I also think it is a brilliant shop window for those friends we have who might be interested in grace based parenting, but think that we are all fluffy walkovers without boundaries. It shows we are not, I think it will open some eyes certainly in my circles and am excited to be sharing it with friends.

DH was just working while I watched it, but overheard some, and is really keen to watch it together.

Can't wait for more of these.

bananacake · 07-07-2015, 07:09 AM

I am watching this and it's super helpful

3PeasInAPod · 07-07-2015, 10:24 AM

Oh I never saw this. Subbing for later

twoplustwo · 07-07-2015, 11:44 AM

- plan to watch it later. I feel like the biggest issue with my kids right now is sibling rivalry.

03-19-2013, 02:59 PM	#1
ArmsOfLove Rose Garden Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 79,607	Sibling Rivalry we did our first publicized Google+ hangout on Sibling Rivalry. If you've had issues with this, it might help http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9T28...ature=youtu.be The next chat is going to be about teaching children responsibility. If you would like to join us, please pm me. We can have a total of 9, but others can watch live on youtube. Just be patient with us - it took us awhile to get going today and make it all work right I think it will be 2 weeks from now on Wednesday. I'll post again when I have the exact date and time hammered out. __________________ Crystal "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." Maya Angelou

03-20-2013, 12:17 PM	#2
flowermama Owner/Founder of GCM Administrator Run with endurance the race that is set before you. . . Heb. 12:1 Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 30,571	Re: Sibling Rivalry That is so awesome, Crystal! I think it's great you are doing that. For the next one, if I'm home I'd like to watch, but definitely not be part of it. Wish I were brave enough! Maybe some day. __________________ ~ Jeri Vegan mom to my vegan kiddos DD1 (24), DS1 (21), DD2 (18), and DS2 (15) And wife to my gentle DH for 26 years and counting Instagram: gentleveganrunner gentlechristianmothers

03-21-2013, 04:30 AM	#3
HadassahSukkot Deactivated being oppressed means the absence of choices - bell hooks Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Germany Posts: 8,892	Re: Sibling Rivalry Jeri, when you are brave enough, we are ready for you. I can't wait to see and hear what gems you'd have ready for us.

03-21-2013, 10:25 AM	#4
flowermama Owner/Founder of GCM Administrator Run with endurance the race that is set before you. . . Heb. 12:1 Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 30,571	Re: Sibling Rivalry That's so kind of you! Thank you! __________________ ~ Jeri Vegan mom to my vegan kiddos DD1 (24), DS1 (21), DD2 (18), and DS2 (15) And wife to my gentle DH for 26 years and counting Instagram: gentleveganrunner gentlechristianmothers

03-21-2013, 10:59 AM	#5
Codi Rose Garden Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 25,840	Re: Sibling Rivalry Can't wait to watch it later!! __________________ MOMMY TO A - 14 A - 11 N - 8

03-21-2013, 06:20 PM	#6
Codi Rose Garden Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 25,840	Re: Sibling Rivalry I was just thinking how cool these videos will be to show my dh! He is a man who does NOT enjoy the written word especially parenting info... but I can totally get him to watch a short video! __________________ MOMMY TO A - 14 A - 11 N - 8

03-21-2013, 09:42 PM	#7
Codi Rose Garden Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 25,840	Re: Sibling Rivalry I really like the line about looking at the world as being an interruption to your mothering instead of mothering being an interruption to everything else needing to be done. A big trigger for me is being interrupted. THAT is a line I need to internalize! (Finally finished the video. ) __________________ MOMMY TO A - 14 A - 11 N - 8

04-02-2013, 08:56 PM	#8
LovelyGourmet Rose Bouquet Keep it together, keep it together... Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Idaho Posts: 853	Re: Sibling Rivalry That was great! We've been struggling with sibling issues. It's so nice to hear that they're not supposed to "get it" until they are older I was thinking I was doing something wrong because they were still fighting all the time! __________________ Tosha INFP (Please forgive my Eeyore-ness) Married to my soul mate - INFJ 8/06 Mommy to C - - 3/08 K - - 10/10 L - - 9/12 D - - 10/14 A - - 03/17 “When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.”

04-02-2013, 09:02 PM	#9
Dana Joy Deactivated AKA "Mommy Piadosa" or on FB "PunkHippyMommy" Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 14,478	Re: Sibling Rivalry How religious is the advice? I don't have time to watch it now, but a non-Christian friend of mine was just picking my brain about sibling stuff.

04-03-2013, 01:17 AM	#11
HadassahSukkot Deactivated being oppressed means the absence of choices - bell hooks Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Germany Posts: 8,892	Re: Sibling Rivalry I don't really recall it being very religious like mentioning church or synagogue services or holidays.. Crystal might have mentioned stopping to pray, as she said, but it was pretty much all the problems any mom would have with kids and sibling rivalry.

04-03-2013, 06:03 AM	#12
SalH Rose Trellis Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Adelaide, South Australia Posts: 1,590	Re: Sibling Rivalry Just. Wow. LOVED IT. Thanks so much Crystal. I loved it because it was so great to have you do so many examples / role play those discussions. Loved it because you demonstrate firmness re boundaries but it is still gentle parenting, it is still full of grace... it is affirming because I think i might even be getting there. Some really great developmental advice too. I also think it is a brilliant shop window for those friends we have who might be interested in grace based parenting, but think that we are all fluffy walkovers without boundaries. It shows we are not, I think it will open some eyes certainly in my circles and am excited to be sharing it with friends. DH was just working while I watched it, but overheard some, and is really keen to watch it together. Can't wait for more of these. __________________ Sal (41) wife to Matthew (41) Home educating mummy to: DS1 (13), DS2 (11) DS3 (9), DD1 (7), DD2 (5) and DD3 (3).

07-07-2015, 07:09 AM	#13
bananacake Rose Garden I Am A BananaCake Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Northeast US Posts: 25,124	Re: Sibling Rivalry I am watching this and it's super helpful __________________ Brenna 3 kiddos (16 1/2, 14 & 9) Praying for semi-son, age 35 I live by the motto: seek first to understand. "Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions." Proverbs 18:2

07-07-2015, 10:24 AM	#14
3PeasInAPod Deactivated Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: pnw Posts: 8,571	Re: Sibling Rivalry Oh I never saw this. Subbing for later

07-07-2015, 11:44 AM	#15
twoplustwo Moderator Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 6,533	Re: Sibling Rivalry - plan to watch it later. I feel like the biggest issue with my kids right now is sibling rivalry. __________________ ESFJ DYT 3/2, Enneagram 9w8 married to My Guy (2003) mom to: Cherished (dd, 12/2005) Warrior (ds, 07/2007) saved & baptized (2004) Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Matthew 16:16

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