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04-19-2012, 10:41 PM | #16 |
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Re: spanking babies???
Don't the Pearls also advocate yanking a baby's hair for hurting the mother's nipples during breastfeeding in TTUAC?
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04-19-2012, 11:44 PM | #17 | |
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Oh, and if the baby is bald, you should pinch their ear.Of all the ridiculous things.
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04-20-2012, 03:05 AM | #18 |
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Re: spanking babies???
Sorry, I should have explained what the link was too. I posted just as I was going to bed last night the link was too a review of the book so it had quotes and then someone's commentary, maybe even a gcm'er? I think Hermana Linda linked to her quotes page early in the thread which is probably better
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04-20-2012, 06:42 AM | #19 | |
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04-20-2012, 10:43 AM | #20 |
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Re: spanking babies???
so, you ladies are awesome
since this is a public forum, am I allowed to copy and paste responses or the link to the thread on FB? |
04-20-2012, 01:11 PM | #21 | |
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You may not cut and paste, but you may link to the thread.
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04-25-2012, 05:15 AM | #23 | |
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Re: spanking babies???
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http://whynottrainachild.com/2011/11...arl-parenting/
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04-25-2012, 08:00 AM | #24 |
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Re: spanking babies???
Wow.. Did you know those videos aren't available on youtube if you have safety mode on? Umm, okay. That's disturbing.
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04-25-2012, 09:00 AM | #25 |
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04-25-2012, 09:02 AM | #26 | |
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Re: spanking babies???
The Preparing to be his helpmeet video that Hermana Linda has on her website. The one in the link posted just above us.
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04-25-2012, 09:32 AM | #27 |
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Re: spanking babies???
That video is so sad. Notice how she says to specify blow instead of spit because that sounds nasty? Kind of like saying train instead of hit.
Her husband got himself a "well trained" wife if she can use semantics to allow herself to be spat on 1/2 an hour into the marriage in front of a crowd. |
04-25-2012, 10:46 AM | #28 |
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Re: spanking babies???
On the "no greater joy" page, they talk about smacking a six month old on the hand if the child looks like he is going to throw his food on the floor to "Train" him not to do it. But the post really emphasizes the fact that they are not promoting punishment since the child is too young for that. They don't believe in chastizing a baby...just training.
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04-25-2012, 11:02 AM | #29 |
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Re: spanking babies???
I knew someone who smacked her 6 week old because he rolled off his nappy. (This was when my kids were small so a long time ago). Still haunts me though, have often wondered how long it was till he rolled again.
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04-25-2012, 05:14 PM | #30 |
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Re: spanking babies???
My cousin smacked her 10 month old because he wouldn't bend his knees to sit on her lap. She was trying to get him to take a nap(which he wasn't ready for, she just didn't want us to hold him. It was a control thing), and she kept snapping at him 'bend your knees!" and smacking his legs when he didn't. It was horrifying to sit and watch.
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