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Old 07-19-2016, 11:02 AM   #16
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Default Re: Couch or Futon or keep sitting on floor?

Do you have a Big Lots? We bought a couch there 10 years ago (I think we paid $599) and it is amazingly comfortable and great to sleep on. Would that price range be a compromise?

We bought a cheap Rooms to Go couch (this one) less than 2 years ago when we moved and had extra rooms to fill and it is falling apart and terribly uncomfortable. I hugely regret it. Going up just a little in price point can really make a difference.
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Old 07-19-2016, 11:18 AM   #17
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Do you have a Big Lots? We bought a couch there 10 years ago (I think we paid $599) and it is amazingly comfortable and great to sleep on. Would that price range be a compromise?

We bought a cheap Rooms to Go couch (this one) less than 2 years ago when we moved and had extra rooms to fill and it is falling apart and terribly uncomfortable. I hugely regret it. Going up just a little in price point can really make a difference.
We do have Big Lots! That price range is double what he wants to pay but reasonable to me, so I'll ask him...

Yeah- your story just solidifies why I want to be careful about going too cheap. Thank you for sharing!
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Old 07-19-2016, 12:27 PM   #18
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Default Re: Couch or Futon or keep sitting on floor?

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We have the money and could comfortably spend it but he doesn't want to.
With that information, I'd go with a good quality very comfortable sofa.

That said, that doesn't necessarily have to be expensive, BUT I wouldn't buy a low quality one to save money.

I know lots of people who have paid top dollar for furniture and ended up with junk. And some people who have snagged fantastic deals and ended up with quality.

I wouldn't too quickly rule out used. Yes, there are those ick factors, but not necessarily. Our best highest quality sofa is one we purchased used from a friend who had upgraded. The saying "they don't build them like they used to" although cliche certainly can be very true lots of times.
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Old 07-19-2016, 12:40 PM   #19
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Sweet sister. I would tell your dh 'I feel hurt you have spent a large sum of money on yourself, but when I ask to spend money we already have on something for both of us, you refuse. It makes me feel I am not a priority.'

He's lucky. My dh has to deal with my 'we need a new puppy' phases.
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Sweet sister. I would tell your dh 'I feel hurt you have spent a large sum of money on yourself, but when I ask to spend money we already have on something for both of us, you refuse. It makes me feel I am not a priority.'

He's lucky. My dh has to deal with my 'we need a new puppy' phases.


I almost said in my first post,

"get a couch and a puppy"
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I almost said in my first post,

"get a couch and a puppy"
Ok, public service announcement: we have three large dogs (a pit bull, a rott and a lab mix) and well....we lost access to the couch. The lab is ancient and the pit bull has seizure, so I caved and let them sleep on it. If you sit on the couch in the lab's spot, he'll sit on you. He sits on the rott's head if she takes his place.

So, get a couch. get a puppy. get a couch and a puppy. But don't get so many puppies they run you off the couch.
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Old 07-19-2016, 03:48 PM   #22
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Default Re: Couch or Futon or keep sitting on floor?

[QUOTE=Virginia;6028434]I would love advice and ideas. DH and I aren't quiet seeing eye to eye.

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We need some sort of couch.
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I want a comfy couch.
DH wants a futon.
I refuse to get a used couch from a home I don't know-

We want to buy a house next summer, so I want


Here is my only thoughts. Moving is hard on furniture. It will get dirty, and has a good chance.of being damaged. Plus what if it isn't the right size shape or color for your new digs...

I would buy a cheapish but comfy couch that could get downgraded to rec room furniture, with the absolute guarantee from my Dh that I would get to pick out my dream couch come moving time without so much as a blink or stutter from Dh.
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Default Re: Couch or Futon or keep sitting on floor?

That's a bit of a sticky spot. Especially if you are going to be moving again.

The Ikea sofa/bed combo shown above? We have it. It was originally in DH's office, and used as a spare bed/spot for him to sit and read. Then we turned his office into DD's bedroom. Now that couch/bed combo is in our basement, and gets used as a guest bed. It's actually pretty comfy to sleep on (we've all done it at times), is double bed sized, and my mom actually asked us to make that up for her the last time she visited, instead of the queen sized bed mattress/box spring we have. With some throw pillows, it's comfortable enough for sitting, if you are curl-upper like I am. And it's a cheap cover replacement for a different colour in a different space. (ours is bright orange)

It's a pretty cheap investment of price, for a non-permanent space. And it wasn't hard to assemble (yes, you do have to put it together), AND its an easy piece to keep on hand for an extra guest bed, and its more comfortable than a futon.

Then I would strongly push for a nice couch in the new house.
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