Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma - Page 2

02-02-2016, 06:49 PM	#16
mamacat Rose Garden Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 26,473	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma You must be so relieved. it sounds like a vast improvement __________________ ~Catherine~ Mama to 5: C W C J S And Grandma to 3: A ,K and baby C

02-02-2016, 07:18 PM	#17
sweetpeasmommy Rose Garden Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 30,329	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma __________________ Amy eNFp Wife to ISTJ DH 1997 Mom to one Sweet Boy 10/2004

02-02-2016, 07:27 PM	#18
esperanza Rose Garden Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 5,240	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma That is wonderful news! I'm so happy for you both! __________________ Wife to mi amor Mama to my gift from the Lord (07/2013)

02-02-2016, 09:13 PM	#19
Ravenzmama Seedling Rose "The words you speak become the house you live in." Hafiz Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 37	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma Wonderful! Praying for y'all!

02-03-2016, 08:55 PM	#20
wildswede Rose Blossom Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 133	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma I'm trying not to get too excited, but I just realized that he hasn't had a screaming, hyperventilating complete meltdown after school AT ALL so far this week AND, he has not had a stomach ache or diarrhea this week.

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02-03-2016, 11:55 PM	#21
sunflowermom Rose Garden Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Oregon Posts: 3,579	Re: Moving away from rewards/punishments and healing from trauma __________________ Mae Married my DH in 2/2008 Gave birth my DS 3/2012

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