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10-26-2016, 10:45 PM | #1 |
Rose Bush
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Etiquette question
Not sure on this one, advice appreciated. We have been invited to a good friend's birthday and have to rsvp in a few days. My brother in law turns 40 the same week and is undecided on a date for his party. Should I give my sister a 'heads up' that we will be busy the day of my friends party? I guess I don't want her to be upset if she sets a date then finds out that we can't make it but on the other hand if I let her know when we are busy she may feel obliged to accommodate us and be annoyed. What would you do??
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10-26-2016, 11:25 PM | #2 |
Rose Trellis
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Re: Etiquette question
RSVP based on your current situation, and give the family your availability. Or sound family out before you RSVP.
Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk ---------- Post added at 04:55 PM ---------- Previous post was at 04:52 PM ---------- I think the main point as far as etiquette is concerned, is RSVP by the correct date .and stick with your decision. Too many people pull out of things or don't commit because of the possibility of something better coming along. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
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10-27-2016, 01:15 AM | #3 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Etiquette question
Yes, I think mention it to your sister, maybe giving her the chance to choose that date as long as she lets you know soon enough that you can rsvp on time.
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10-27-2016, 04:16 AM | #4 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Etiquette question
I think I would call sil asking if she had a date for bil's party. If you're close you could tell her why you're asking (I just got invited to a party on X date and I wanted to make sure it wasn't going to conflict). I think doing that makes you look thoughtful.
Then RSVP to the party accordingly (I assume that the bil's party would trump the friend's party if you had to choose, right?)
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10-27-2016, 05:49 AM | #5 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Etiquette question
I would call my sil and tell her that there is a party on x date and you would like to know when her husband's party will be so you know how to rsvp. Or you can rsvp yes and then mention it to you sil later.
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11-04-2016, 12:43 AM | #7 |
Rose Bush
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Re: Etiquette question
Thanks everyone, we worked it out nicely
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