Random Quotes from Wise Mamas |
br>
|
11-20-2017, 03:45 PM | #1 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 16,108
|
Snapchat?
I don't like it and have not let my son have it but now his NJROTC team wants to use it for communication. I don't know why they can't just text message!
He's in 11th grade. And I have said that my kids may not have it until they are adults. I hate for him to be the only one in the group that can't group message that way. He would disable the GPS on it.
__________________
k-i-loyd, not kill loyd ISFJ/P Katherine, married 8-9-97 ds1 22 (adding a dil in August!) dd1 18 dd2 16 ds2 10 |
11-20-2017, 04:05 PM | #2 |
Rose Garden
Don't mind my faces. They usually don't mean anything.
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Virginia
Posts: 8,644
|
Re: Snapchat?
I do not like Snapchat for teenagers (I have Snapchat). At all.
I don’t like that pictures and messages disappear after one sends them. I don’t like that when I’m clicking through stories, I sometimes see inappropriate things I don’t want to. And unlike Facebook, I can’t just “unfollow but stay friends with” people. Also, many teenagers use Snap for super inappropriate things because the picture does disappear. So they think it’s safe to send certain types of pics even though they might never do so via texting. Also, lots of drama ensues based on people’s snap stories, and kids sometimes get obsessed with maintaining a “streak” with someone. The kids can use a group message or group message app to communicate. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
Christine WAHM as writer/editor; part-time high school teacher; wife to pharmacist DH since 7.31.2010 Lila in heaven, 8/2015 DD1 "KO" born 8/2017 DD2 GIRL born 1/2020 |
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Virginia For This Useful Post: | AngelaVA (11-23-2017), ECingMama (11-21-2017), Katigre (11-20-2017), kiloyd (11-20-2017), Singingmom (11-20-2017), tempus vernum (11-21-2017) |
11-20-2017, 07:10 PM | #3 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 16,108
|
Re: Snapchat?
These are the reasons I don't like it.
DS said they sent out a text and people didn't respond. So they think they'll respond in Snapchat? Whoever is the leader, probably a senior, asked for a show of hands of how had FB, who had Instagram, or Snapchat. Ds has FB and Instagram. Figuring out what to do about this Snapchat. I do not like it.
__________________
k-i-loyd, not kill loyd ISFJ/P Katherine, married 8-9-97 ds1 22 (adding a dil in August!) dd1 18 dd2 16 ds2 10 |
11-20-2017, 07:59 PM | #4 | |
Rose Garden
Don't mind my faces. They usually don't mean anything.
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Virginia
Posts: 8,644
|
Re: Snapchat?
Quote:
I don’t get it. Why would they want to use Snap instead? All the stuff they say will get deleted in 24 hours... what is the purpose of this group chat/text? You mentioned NJROTC. So is it just social? Or will the “leader” be using this to keep members informed about dates or times or announcements? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
Christine WAHM as writer/editor; part-time high school teacher; wife to pharmacist DH since 7.31.2010 Lila in heaven, 8/2015 DD1 "KO" born 8/2017 DD2 GIRL born 1/2020 |
|
The Following User Says Thank You to Virginia For This Useful Post: | kiloyd (11-21-2017) |
11-20-2017, 09:48 PM | #5 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Barrens of Texas
Posts: 5,152
|
Re: Snapchat?
there are great apps out there to send mass messages that don't disappear after 24 hours or a single viewing. perhaps you could recommend he use one of those instead.
I think my kids youth pastor has like 3 different apps to convey information through
__________________
Sam's wife Keegan, Zoe, Anakin and Anaiah's Mom Nonni to Jasper, Iris, Ivory, and Lyric! |
11-20-2017, 11:55 PM | #6 |
Deactivated
being oppressed means the absence of choices - bell hooks
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Germany
Posts: 8,892
|
Re: Snapchat?
Whatsapp would be better for what they want, or Facebook Messenger. It's not reasonable to expect everyone to be on snapchat with all the sexting and revenge porn issues surrounding the platform.
|
11-21-2017, 05:17 AM | #7 | ||
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 16,108
|
Re: Snapchat?
Quote:
---------- Post added at 12:17 PM ---------- Previous post was at 12:16 PM ---------- Quote:
__________________
k-i-loyd, not kill loyd ISFJ/P Katherine, married 8-9-97 ds1 22 (adding a dil in August!) dd1 18 dd2 16 ds2 10 |
||
11-21-2017, 07:20 PM | #8 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 19,582
|
Re: Snapchat?
It's how teens communicate now. It's a reality. My teens have it, know some kids use it stupidly, sometimes delete it, and mostly use it responsibly. We talk about it and social media use in general a lot. Focussing on our relationship and openness is my approach rather then banning particular apps.
__________________
|
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to expatmom For This Useful Post: | 2sunshines (11-22-2017), kiloyd (11-21-2017), Llee (11-22-2017), tazmom (11-24-2017), tempus vernum (11-22-2017), WanderingJuniper (11-22-2017) |
11-22-2017, 08:49 AM | #9 |
Rose Garden
Don't mind my faces. They usually don't mean anything.
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Virginia
Posts: 8,644
|
Re: Snapchat?
One can focus on relationships and openness and also ban apps or other technology; the two are not mutually exclusive. It’s not an either/or
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
Christine WAHM as writer/editor; part-time high school teacher; wife to pharmacist DH since 7.31.2010 Lila in heaven, 8/2015 DD1 "KO" born 8/2017 DD2 GIRL born 1/2020 |
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Virginia For This Useful Post: |
11-22-2017, 09:56 AM | #10 |
Moderator in Celebrations, Cloth Diapering & EC, Empty Arms, Prayer & Praise, and Swap n' Shop
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 27,024
|
Re: Snapchat?
I agree. And learning that line is SO SO SO difficult.
Also, it's important to remember that if kids want to hide and do things they can find a way to do it regardless of what boundaries and bans you make. Parenting teens is HARD HARD HARD. So much easier when they were little and it was a matter of feeding and changing and cuddling.
__________________
married 25 years mom to two young adults (23 and 20) and two teens (17 and 15) |
11-22-2017, 11:28 AM | #11 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 16,108
|
Re: Snapchat?
Yes yes yes!!
__________________
k-i-loyd, not kill loyd ISFJ/P Katherine, married 8-9-97 ds1 22 (adding a dil in August!) dd1 18 dd2 16 ds2 10 |
The Following User Says Thank You to kiloyd For This Useful Post: | Virginia (11-22-2017) |
11-22-2017, 04:01 PM | #12 |
Rose Trellis
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: VA, USA
Posts: 2,606
|
Re: Snapchat?
I guess it's good for people who have digital hoarding issues? (I still struggle with this though - I grew up in a house without TV and my sister is only just out of high school so I struggle to understand anything that so heavily requires people to have constant access to data, internet, multiple applications, etc. As far as I know my sister hasn't suffered due to low technology access, and her absence from any social media is choice driven. But. I still think it's good for people to advocate for ways to ensure those few teens still living in an analogue world can still access essential communication and some social interaction.)
__________________
Joanna INTJ A Brit living in America DH (ISFP) 07/09 DS1 01/12 DS2 06/14 DD1 01/16 |
The Following User Says Thank You to JoannaV For This Useful Post: | kiloyd (11-23-2017) |
11-22-2017, 04:55 PM | #13 | |
Rose Garden
Why climb a mountain? Because it's there!
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Selkirk Mountains
Posts: 52,860
|
Re: Snapchat?
Quote:
I laugh about the hiding if they really want to. When I was a kid we had land lines and pen and paper. There was no record of my phone calls or even caller ID! My parents had no idea who I talked to on the phone. I find it odd that ROTC world use such a silly app for something relatively important like communicating schedules and meeting times. The whole point of it, it would seem, would be to streamline communication while still keeping a record. Facebook is much better for that because a closed group page has a calendar and will automatically send everyone reminders. Any scheduling conflicts can be discussed, etc. |
|
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Soliloquy For This Useful Post: |
11-23-2017, 11:13 AM | #14 | |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 16,108
|
Re: Snapchat?
Quote:
---------- Post added at 06:13 PM ---------- Previous post was at 06:07 PM ---------- I need to preach this to myself too.
__________________
k-i-loyd, not kill loyd ISFJ/P Katherine, married 8-9-97 ds1 22 (adding a dil in August!) dd1 18 dd2 16 ds2 10 |
|
11-23-2017, 01:06 PM | #15 | |
Rose Garden
Don't mind my faces. They usually don't mean anything.
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Virginia
Posts: 8,644
|
Snapchat?
Quote:
For me, it’s not so much about hiding but about being prematurely or inadvertently exposed to things because of the way Snapchat stories work. Like, I am an adult, and I have still seen things on my own friends’ Snapchat stories that I didn’t want to see People can also send you a “private snap,” and you don’t know what it is until you open it. So it could be an unsavory photo. So yeah, maybe we could hide behind landlines and handwritten notes, but I couldn’t sext or receive unsavory photos on a piece of notebook paper or landline...and once I see something, I am the kind of person who can’t unsee it. I don’t think as many teens have Facebook nowadays They seem to think it’s mostly for “us old people” haha. I agree that using Snap for ROTC just seems really silly and unwise. I get that it’s fun. But it isn’t the best choice for communication, imo. I do think if a parent is going to let a kid get Instagram or Snapchat, they should also create an account so they really understand how it works Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
Christine WAHM as writer/editor; part-time high school teacher; wife to pharmacist DH since 7.31.2010 Lila in heaven, 8/2015 DD1 "KO" born 8/2017 DD2 GIRL born 1/2020 |
|
The Following User Says Thank You to Virginia For This Useful Post: | kiloyd (11-23-2017) |
Bookmarks |
Thread Tools | |
Display Modes | |
|
|
X vBulletin 3.8.3 Debug Information | |
---|---|
|
|
More Information | |
Template Usage:
Phrase Groups Available:
|
Included Files:
Hooks Called:
|