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03-07-2021, 08:53 AM | #1 |
Rose Garden
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New blog/podcast and parenting hack
I went to a mom's retreat yesterday and listened to a speaker from Homeschooling without Training wheels. I'm not sure how gentle she is so I am not going to link it, but she still has a lot of good ideas for sibling conflict that isn't shut it down and shame them. In fact, she's really emphatic that you do not shame at all. I have already used some of her ideas and they really do help.
One of the things I picked up from another woman who was there is to ask your child math questions when they are really emotional. It moves you from the emotional part of your brain into the logical part and helps reset. James tried it today with a very overwhelmed Jacob and it was magic. He went from the verge of a complete melt down to calm after four or five questions. If your child is too young to add, you can try asking them to count or asking them what color something is or some other fact they know to get them to their logical brain.
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03-07-2021, 10:03 AM | #2 |
Rose Garden
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Re: New blog/podcast and parenting hack
That sounds very similar to skip COuntting and other self
Soothing methods.
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03-07-2021, 11:42 AM | #3 |
Rose Garden
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Re: New blog/podcast and parenting hack
I think this is an interesting tactic but could be done respectfully or not and we should be careful (I’m sure everyone here will be great at that but recommending it outside of gcm we might urge some caution). After some listening and comforting I would probably ask a child if that would be okay. But I think it depends on the parent and the child. Or if the child didn’t want to answer I could see myself reciting math facts out loud within their hearing to switch brain function.
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03-08-2021, 09:37 AM | #4 | |
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Re: New blog/podcast and parenting hack
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03-08-2021, 02:31 PM | #6 |
Rose Garden
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Re: New blog/podcast and parenting hack
I'm going to try. Thanks!
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03-07-2021, 12:21 PM | #7 |
Rose Bouquet
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Re: New blog/podcast and parenting hack
Thanks for the tips! I'm going to keep the math idea in mind and see if it's helpful for my kids.
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