Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) - Page 3

backtobasicsmum · 10-13-2010, 10:17 PM

Barefoot · 10-13-2010, 10:39 PM

I wish every message board had a sticky like this. I quite often open topics only to read the OP and think, this is going to end badly.

Firebird Rising · 10-13-2010, 10:48 PM

subbing to read all this. it looks like a gem Allison.

ArmsOfLove · 10-13-2010, 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JoyInTheSpirit

It actually feels like I soak up others' energy (not intentionally).

that's a high level of empathy that may actually be from a strong spiritual gift that no one has taught you how to use wisely. It's really important to learn how to be a conduit with other people's pain going through us to the Lord--lifted up in intercessory prayer--and His love flowing through us out to other people. Otherwise we end up bottlenecked where we are full of their pain and trying to love them out of our own limited resources

Tuesdayschild · 10-14-2010, 12:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by allisonintx

Media Free Week every quarter or so, is a good way to deprogram from the noise in your head

ITA from experience that a media hiatus every once in a while is *vital* for resetting priorities / clearing head space.

BearyBlessed · 10-14-2010, 01:30 AM

Thank you, Allison.

3xblessed · 10-14-2010, 06:06 AM

Thank you, Allison. So beautifully said.

zak · 10-14-2010, 06:19 AM

Thank you, Allison!

mother love · 10-14-2010, 07:26 AM

Wow! Thank you so much!! I just re-joined gcm and so great to read this before I start posting!!

Heather Micaela · 10-14-2010, 11:38 AM

bumping
(and voting to make this a sticky)

cro · 10-14-2010, 09:54 PM

Definitely a sticky-worthy post!

Peridot · 10-15-2010, 11:05 AM

very well done. Thank you Allison.

Maggirayne · 10-15-2010, 11:33 AM

A year writing it, wow, you are amazing and such a blessing here, Allison!

ShiriChayim, Smilie Win!

MamaCare · 10-15-2010, 11:36 AM

Amen, and amen!

Forsynthianicki · 10-15-2010, 11:47 AM

Thanks for taking the time to think/ write all of this out. Wise words Allison

10-13-2010, 10:17 PM	#31
backtobasicsmum Rose Garden Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 29,784	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) __________________ Karisa W -17 My talking boy E - 16 My doing boy J - 14 My sparkly girl L - 11 My funny boy O - 9 My snuggly boy

10-13-2010, 10:39 PM	#32
Barefoot Climbing Rose Now I'm standing here, my heart so full I can't explain. Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Sydney Australia Posts: 1,352	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) I wish every message board had a sticky like this. I quite often open topics only to read the OP and think, this is going to end badly. __________________ Finally after 5 years, I am a Mama to a gorgeous boy. DS Sweet Pea February 2010 TTC a second child since 2011 Giving up, with peace granted by God. (Trying IVF one more time - I got an inheritance ) It worked!!! But then failed ~ ~ Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says "Oh Crap, She's up!" ~

10-13-2010, 10:48 PM	#33
Firebird Rising Rose Garden Encircling Mountains Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: High above a great and beautiful canyon in a Golden State city... Posts: 19,063	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) subbing to read all this. it looks like a gem Allison. __________________ *Привет! Меня зовут Джен!* Hi! My name is Jen! May the wind under your wings bear you where the sun sails and the moon walks - Gandalf

10-14-2010, 01:30 AM	#36
BearyBlessed Rose Garden Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: 'Neath the willow tree Posts: 6,636	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Thank you, Allison. __________________ ~BearyBlessed~ ~ISFP/Type 2~ Wife to my best friend since December 2000 Mama to my boys Aji ~ My long awaited blessing ~ May 2007 Living with T1D since May 2012 YoYo ~ My HBAC miracle ~ November 2009

10-14-2010, 06:06 AM	#37
3xblessed Rose Garden Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 16,792	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Thank you, Allison. So beautifully said. __________________ Dinah married my sweetheart for 35 years mom to three - ages 39, 33, & 19 Nana to one - 22 months

10-14-2010, 06:19 AM	#38
zak Administrator Friend of the Fellowship Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: The South Posts: 33,212	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Thank you, Allison! __________________ -zak Wife to MrZak Mama to the ZakKids - 2005, 2007, 2010, 2012 and 2017 Dedicated GCMer since 2003 Administrator and Moderating Cradled, Babes, Breastfeeding, Beautiful Mothers and Circumcision

10-14-2010, 07:26 AM	#39
mother love Rosebud Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 56	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Wow! Thank you so much!! I just re-joined gcm and so great to read this before I start posting!!

10-14-2010, 11:38 AM	#40
Heather Micaela Rose Garden Bar/Bat Mitzvah picture with husband Michael. Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Within sight and earshot of the Disneyland fireworks Posts: 39,893	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) bumping (and voting to make this a sticky) __________________ Heather ESFJ T4 Messianic Joshua-13 Christina- 11 Amalia Linda-8.5 Trinity-7 Gabriel-5 w/ADHD, ASD & Dyslexia Taylor Jordan11/15/04 SkyeDakota10/12/05 Life is a pile of good things & bad things The good things don't always soften the bad things but the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things

10-14-2010, 09:54 PM	#41
cro Rose Garden Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 7,779	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Definitely a sticky-worthy post! __________________ ISTJ, DYT 4/2 mama to: M ~ born in Russia 8/31/02; adopted 7/21/04 J ~ born in America 3/20/05; natural bio surprise E ~ born in America 12/08/08; natural bio miracle

10-15-2010, 11:05 AM	#42
Peridot Rose Garden I stand before you, DeFrocked!! Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: The Qontinuum Posts: 11,537	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) very well done. Thank you Allison. __________________ This is me- and them- ds 'Maximus'- 7.5 yrs, and ds 'Minimus'- 5 yrs. "A normal, imperfect, LUMPEN human being!!" Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. and yet, one day Love himself barged into the Temple with a bullwhip and declared enough was enough. I will testify to Love.

10-15-2010, 11:33 AM	#43
Maggirayne Rose Garden Standing for gentleness and honesty Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Looking for Hope Posts: 12,027	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) A year writing it, wow, you are amazing and such a blessing here, Allison! ShiriChayim, Smilie Win! __________________ Maggi, Tw irler of the Umbrella of Silliness Mama to two sweet littles and 3 angels 12/4/11 10/7/13 12/8/13 Grace is not a destination, it's a journey. I first learned to show grace to my child that was not shown to me, then I learned to accept it for myself, and only recently have I been able to have grace for others more. ~Sweetpeasmommy A

10-15-2010, 11:36 AM	#44
MamaCare Rose Garden Girlie hugging Cubby-in-utero Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,473	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Amen, and amen! __________________ Care Blessed partner to K-Rock since 1993 Mama to Bug, my intense thinker; 09/96 Mix, my creative fireball; 01/99 my sweetly delightful Girlie; 11/04 my laid-back Cubby-climber; 04/07 my tenacious and joyful I-boy; 07/08 my surprise blessing Baby-J; 04/09 missing my angel, Serenity 03/04; http://mommypress.com/itllturnup/

10-15-2010, 11:47 AM	#45
Forsynthianicki Climbing Rose Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,252	Re: Healthy Message Board Living...no, really, you want to read this ;) Thanks for taking the time to think/ write all of this out. Wise words Allison __________________ ____________ Forsynthianicki Married to my "hunk o' burnin love" for 13+ years Mom to: J Bug dd, born at 21 weeks (2003) from our arms to God's J Bean ds, "boundless energy" (2006)

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